The mother and father were once the builders of their homes and families, the founders of the family and society. However, in the course of time, some of them have become inefficient, poor in their own homes, children's eyesores and a burden to the family and society. But the miserable condition like a scum floating in the water flows over them. In the end they end up in their own self-made families or samsara, a kind of alien or alien. But it is heard very loudly in the field that "today's child is tomorrow's future".But no one makes it clear or insists that 'today's establishment is only the product of yesterday's establishment'. In other words, those who worked hard day and night yesterday to bring the society to 'today' are the parents. The future and leaders of today's society. Misunderstandings and quarrels occur in the family of children in the care of the elderly. Many sons' wives cannot accept their parents-in-law as their own parents. In addition, they find caring for elderly parents an additional burden.Most elderly parents these days are victims of mental and physical abuse – which is as true as ever. In some families, the majority of day-to-day life is spent on old people, all of which amounts to pandashram. As a result, old people's homes are being built like the steps of Asadha, regardless of Islamic law, rules, halal-haram etc. Many old people of the society are living in all nursing homes. Many elderly parents are forced to live in nursing homes despite having children.None of those civilizations are the harsh reality of society.